Gen Y: Stop Whining
Title: Gen Y: Stop Whining
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Filed in archive General by Justin McHenry on May 07, 2008
This post may annoy you. Especially if you are between the ages of 22 and 30 and like to whine about how difficult your life is.
Kara McGuire of the Minneapolis Star-Tribune brought up the subject of Gen Y finances yesterday in this blog post that offers more stats about how bad the young have it today financially versus earlier generations. And in the last couple years there have been not one but two oft-reviewed books about the money problems of the young - Generation Debt and Strapped. It sounds really, really tough out there if you're young.
If you're part of Gen Y and find yourself whining about how hard you have it in comparison to those that came before, you're preaching only to yourself. Everyone's had it hard, and your lot isn't any more difficult.
It used to be that the older generation told kids how hard they had it in comparison: "When I was your age, I had to walk 5 miles barefoot to school and I liked it."
But both Gen X (of which I am a part) and Gen Y have tried to turn this around and make it seem like they are the ones that have it hard. With Gen X it was the slacker stereotype, with all of us disaffected, taking on nowhere jobs and listening to grunge music with little hope or interest in improving our lots. Our parents had screwed it up for us, and now we were lost.
We were full of it, and anyone from Gen Y who complains is full of it, too.
Every generation starts out in their early 20s broke and working in deadly jobs. Luckily there is sex and alcohol to balance out these financially-unrewarding years. Then you get older. You work your way up, you make a little more money, you have sex less and drink less (or more in some cases). There's always a trade-off.
Gen Y, it will be no different for you. Sure it sucks to have a bunch of college debt and maybe your apartment costs more than mine did. Whatever. Deal with it.
I mean, come on. It wasn't that long ago that people in their early 20s were being drafted to go to wars and get shot at. Even if that paid well, it would be the absolute definition of a crappy job. And, ladies, you weren't even expected to have enough of a brain to do anything outside of getting hitched and keeping a house for a man, and preparing the soil for babies. Does this sound like the dream life?
When I got out of college in the early '90s there was a bad recession going on. I couldn't get a full-time job for two years and had to live in my parents house for the majority of that time. You'll find this hard to believe, but I had to create my resumé and cover letters on a typewriter! And if I wanted multiple copies, I had to go to Kinko's to do it! It sucked, man! You may remember the 90s as the Bill Clinton party years, but Clinton got elected because things were going B-A-D, bad. He was elected the year I got out of school.
And we didn't have the Internet yet! I could not go to Wikipedia and get any piece of information I wanted, or jump on the computer to do extensive research on any company that might be hard-up enough to interview me. I had to go to the freaking library. And don't get me started on the "computer lab" I used in college.
I also was underprivileged enough to not carry a cell phone with me everywhere I went. This was almost as bad as having to use outhouses.
I'm not saying I had it worse than you or my parents had it worse than you or their parents had it worse than you. I'm just saying every generation has its own challenges and its own opportunities. Almost every young person has financial struggles that resolve themselves in time, especially if that person is well-educated. You are not worse-off than your parents, just different.
(And don't look at your well-fed, satisfied parents when you make this comparison; think of them when they were your age. Ask them about it sometime, I'm sure they'd be happy to go on endlessly about their struggles when they were first married.)
I love you, Gen Y, and I tell you this only as some tough love.
(DISCLAIMER: I know that Gen Y gets stereotyped just as every other generation does. I was not a Gen X slacker, my parents were not decadent baby boomers who thought they deserved everything, etc. If you are in Gen Y and don't believe that the world has somehow left you with a raw deal that previous generations could never understand, please know that I am not talking to you.)
Kara McGuire of the Minneapolis Star-Tribune brought up the subject of Gen Y finances yesterday in this blog post that offers more stats about how bad the young have it today financially versus earlier generations. And in the last couple years there have been not one but two oft-reviewed books about the money problems of the young - Generation Debt and Strapped. It sounds really, really tough out there if you're young.
If you're part of Gen Y and find yourself whining about how hard you have it in comparison to those that came before, you're preaching only to yourself. Everyone's had it hard, and your lot isn't any more difficult.
It used to be that the older generation told kids how hard they had it in comparison: "When I was your age, I had to walk 5 miles barefoot to school and I liked it."
But both Gen X (of which I am a part) and Gen Y have tried to turn this around and make it seem like they are the ones that have it hard. With Gen X it was the slacker stereotype, with all of us disaffected, taking on nowhere jobs and listening to grunge music with little hope or interest in improving our lots. Our parents had screwed it up for us, and now we were lost.
We were full of it, and anyone from Gen Y who complains is full of it, too.
Every generation starts out in their early 20s broke and working in deadly jobs. Luckily there is sex and alcohol to balance out these financially-unrewarding years. Then you get older. You work your way up, you make a little more money, you have sex less and drink less (or more in some cases). There's always a trade-off.
Gen Y, it will be no different for you. Sure it sucks to have a bunch of college debt and maybe your apartment costs more than mine did. Whatever. Deal with it.
I mean, come on. It wasn't that long ago that people in their early 20s were being drafted to go to wars and get shot at. Even if that paid well, it would be the absolute definition of a crappy job. And, ladies, you weren't even expected to have enough of a brain to do anything outside of getting hitched and keeping a house for a man, and preparing the soil for babies. Does this sound like the dream life?
When I got out of college in the early '90s there was a bad recession going on. I couldn't get a full-time job for two years and had to live in my parents house for the majority of that time. You'll find this hard to believe, but I had to create my resumé and cover letters on a typewriter! And if I wanted multiple copies, I had to go to Kinko's to do it! It sucked, man! You may remember the 90s as the Bill Clinton party years, but Clinton got elected because things were going B-A-D, bad. He was elected the year I got out of school.
And we didn't have the Internet yet! I could not go to Wikipedia and get any piece of information I wanted, or jump on the computer to do extensive research on any company that might be hard-up enough to interview me. I had to go to the freaking library. And don't get me started on the "computer lab" I used in college.
I also was underprivileged enough to not carry a cell phone with me everywhere I went. This was almost as bad as having to use outhouses.
I'm not saying I had it worse than you or my parents had it worse than you or their parents had it worse than you. I'm just saying every generation has its own challenges and its own opportunities. Almost every young person has financial struggles that resolve themselves in time, especially if that person is well-educated. You are not worse-off than your parents, just different.
(And don't look at your well-fed, satisfied parents when you make this comparison; think of them when they were your age. Ask them about it sometime, I'm sure they'd be happy to go on endlessly about their struggles when they were first married.)
I love you, Gen Y, and I tell you this only as some tough love.
(DISCLAIMER: I know that Gen Y gets stereotyped just as every other generation does. I was not a Gen X slacker, my parents were not decadent baby boomers who thought they deserved everything, etc. If you are in Gen Y and don't believe that the world has somehow left you with a raw deal that previous generations could never understand, please know that I am not talking to you.)



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